Category: Personal

Bridging the Divide

by Tara Overzat

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I entered the story below into a contest. Even though it lost (boo!) Sean and I decided it deserved to see the light of day. So here it is!

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I saw a local commercial on PBS. Rose Price, a Holocaust survivor, was going to speak at Beth Hallel in observance of Yom Hashoah. I knew Yom Hashoah to be the day of Holocaust remembrance. I was familiar with some of the Jewish holidays and traditions, thanks to Mom.

Mom, a Puerto Rican Roman Catholic, spent a decade working at Israeli Discount Bank and the things she learned from her co-workers remained with her. She would drop Yiddish into her conversations, tsk-tsking that someone was a “yenta,” asking people if they wanted something to “nosh” on, and exclaiming “Oy gevalt!” when we bothered her. We went to St. Andrew’s Catholic Church on Sundays, and took Bible classes, but it wasn’t long til my brother and I were dropping Yiddish into our conversations, too. Many of our classmates and friends were Jewish and no one batted an eye when I complained about having to “schlep” my bookbag. We ate latkes and coexistapplesauce during Hanukkah, even if we didn’t pray in Hebrew. It never occurred to us to regularly attend services, but we did go to temple when we were invited for a bar/bat mitzvah. Mom approved of me reading the Diary of Anne Frank when I was in the fourth grade and I read Holocaust stories and histories for a number of years thereafter. We were spiritually Catholic, but there was an undeniable Jewish influence in our lives.

I looked up Beth Hallel online for directions. Under the name, the website said “Messianic Jewish Synagogue.”  What?

I recalled a conversation I had in middle school, where my classmates and I had poked fun at so-called “Jews for Jesus.”

“Look, Tara believes in Jesus, so she’s a Christian,” Leah had said. “And I don’t, so I’m Jewish. You can’t be both! Duh!”

And now, here I was en route to a place that claimed, yes, yes you can. You can have Shabbat service and some Jesus, too. I drove out to the Atlanta suburbs, along the way passing a signboard proclaiming, “Have you read Atlas Shrugged?” on the lawn of a chiropractor’s office.

The parking lot was full, and people were starting to double-park. Would a Messianic synagogue tow?  Nah, I reasoned. I couldn’t think of a single commandment against it (except maybe, “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s… parking spot?”)

The large auditorium of the building was full and a glance up showed that it must be some afterschool basketball court when not being used for special events – the backboards and hoops were drawn up.

I found a lone seat – one of many fold-up chairs set up in the balconies for this event. The friendly rabbi and many volunteers were trying hard to seat people and to dig up some more chairs. The attractive middle-aged woman seated next to me struck up a conversation. She asked me about my phone and showed me that she had the same one.

“This is my first time here to Beth Hallel,” I told her. “I didn’t even know they had one of these Messianic synagogues in Georgia.”

She smiled. “Well, bless your heart! I’ve been coming here since… let’s see…1997?  I grew up in Michigan in the Lutheran church, and then I started coming here when I moved south. I didn’t speak a lick of Hebrew.  But, you know what, if Hebrew is good enough for the Lord, it’s good enough for me.”

I had never heard it put that way before.

The rabbi and volunteers were successful in seating the majority of the attendants, but clearly had been surprised by the response of the community. Rose took the stage, looking resplendent in a lightly sequined dress and coat. The rabbi came to the stage to move her podium. Without missing a beat, she said, “That’s why we need a rabbi – to schlep!”

The audience laughed. She made jokes throughout her talk, and even though she shared some of the horrendous experiences she faced in the ghetto and later in a concentration camp, her theme was one of hope and forgiveness. She had found both of these in G-d, and only came to accept Jesus as her savior later in life – after she had been the leader of her synagogue. She found in this combination faith a way to forgive her tormentors, and did so on a trip to Berlin.

On my way out, I spoke to an old co-worker who had heard about the event through my facebook page. She had never seen a Holocaust survivor speak before and was excited and inspired by the experience. As I left Beth Hallel, I too was in awe – not only of Rose’s courage and determination, but of the actualization of a peaceful middle ground between two very different faiths.

Someone Will Listen

Someone Will Listen

The media has recently been highlighting the depression that tweens, adolescents, and young adults experience. Truth is, people of all ages can feel overburdened and helpless and it is not a new problem. Click the link above to hear the WMA file.

~Tara Overzat

We Are Not Independent

Click here- We Are Not Independent – WMA audio file

Just a brief thought about how we as individuals aren’t ever alone, even when we are lonely. You can click the link above (it will take you to a second page where you can click the link again) to hear the WMA file.

~Tara Overzat

The Michael Jackson Tragedy- What Happens When You Don’t Deal With Your Past

Young Michael Jackson

Young Michael Jackson

By Tara Overzat

Michael Jackson died on my birthday. I received a text message from a friend at 6:09pm. TMZ was reporting the death well before any of the other news outlets.

Everyone was shocked and saddened. I feel like Jackson was robbed of his last shot, his last chance Read more »

Being a “Nowist”

Tara playing dress up in the amazing furry coat!

Tara playing dress up in the amazing furry coat!

By Tara Overzat

I struggle to live in the “now.” As kids, this was so easy. Why is it so hard as adults?

Maybe becuase we can’t shake the shackles of our memories, both good and bad. We want to Read more »

“Homeless” Guy follows 2 girls into Lindbergh City Center Parking Lot

Lindbergh City Center

Lindbergh City Center

By Tara Overzat

My neighborhood is a generally safe place, and until last night I never felt uncomfortable walking to and around the Lindbergh City Center restaurants/bars across the street from my apartment . My friend and I Read more »

Sotomayor – More Than Just a Statistic

By Tara Overzat

Sonia Sotomayor has been widely praised for pulling herself up by her bootstraps and working her way out of the Bronx projects and first into the Ivy League, then into Law, and now into the limelight as President Obama’s first Sumpreme Court nominee, and in fact the first Latina to be nominated to the highest court in the land.

The surprising thing is the media has gone on… and on… and on about her ethnicity and has reported disappointingly little about her beliefs and her record, which except for a few examples is surprisingly centrist. While very little has been said about her record, a veritable ticker-tape parade has been held over her rising up out of poverty, not just as a person, but as a woman and a Hispanic. Read more »

AK-47s? To rob an Advanced Auto Parts? In Coral Springs?!

Last night, a Coral Springs police officer was caught trying to apprehend armed robbers in the generally quiet Florida town of Coral Springs. I grew up in that town, and remember well when cows still grazed there under the hot sun. Though the town has since boomed, thugs possibly armed with AK-47s is not what I call progress. If the initial details of this crime are accurate, I hope the justice system deters future criminal behavior in South Florida with harsh sentences to the people that terrorized the town. The article below from the Miami Herald details what may have occurred.  ~Tara Overzat

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Coral Springs officer shot Saturday recovering

BY DAVID SMILEY, ROBERT SAMUELS AND JULIE KNIPE BROWN
dsmiley@MiamiHerald.com
A Coral Springs police officer is recovering well after he was shot Saturday night while chasing a group of armed robbers, officials said.

Two men have so far been charged with ”a litany of crimes” in connection with the incident, Coral Springs spokesman Bob Behan said on Sunday morning. Details on the charges were not immediately available. Read more »

Following Your Bliss And Remembering to Pay the Bills

tara-overzat-2by Tara Overzat

“When you follow your bliss… doors will open where you would not have thought there would be doors; and where there wouldn’t be a door for anyone else.” ~ Joseph Campbell, anthropologist, mythologist

After years of research, Joseph Campbell came up with several universal truths regarding world myths. No matter how remote the region, how primitive or advanced the society, certain ideas always resonate with people. One of these he characterized as “Follow your Bliss.”

What does “Follow your Bliss” mean? It is certainly not a call to be lazy and watch hours of Bravo channel reality shows on a Sunday afternoon (how I love guilty pleasures!), but to find the activity or activities that you think give your life meaning. This may be as grand as Sir Galahad chasing the Holy Grail or as bland as deciding that this year you will make the gym a habit and not an afterthought. It is something often outside of your comfort zone that beckons to you, that you somehow know is the right thing to do.
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Bristol Palin is Right About Abstinence

tara-overzat-2by Tara Overzat

Abstinence is the only 100% effective way to avoid unwanted pregnancy. It may be ironic, but not wrong at all for a teenage mother to say so. While Bristol and her boyfriend knew about condoms and apparently used them incorrectly or at times not at all, the point is that teenagers (and adults) have accidents in the heat of moment. Not only are condoms not fail-safe, but sex has such a strong biological pull that when the mood is right many people will opt not to use a condom “just this one time.” Palin has learned the consequences of that decision the hard way.

Many people on the left like to say that it is completely unnatural to expect a horny teenagers not to engage in sexual Read more »

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