Bridging the Divide

by Tara Overzat

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I entered the story below into a contest. Even though it lost (boo!) Sean and I decided it deserved to see the light of day. So here it is!

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I saw a local commercial on PBS. Rose Price, a Holocaust survivor, was going to speak at Beth Hallel in observance of Yom Hashoah. I knew Yom Hashoah to be the day of Holocaust remembrance. I was familiar with some of the Jewish holidays and traditions, thanks to Mom.

Mom, a Puerto Rican Roman Catholic, spent a decade working at Israeli Discount Bank and the things she learned from her co-workers remained with her. She would drop Yiddish into her conversations, tsk-tsking that someone was a “yenta,” asking people if they wanted something to “nosh” on, and exclaiming “Oy gevalt!” when we bothered her. We went to St. Andrew’s Catholic Church on Sundays, and took Bible classes, but it wasn’t long til my brother and I were dropping Yiddish into our conversations, too. Many of our classmates and friends were Jewish and no one batted an eye when I complained about having to “schlep” my bookbag. We ate latkes and coexistapplesauce during Hanukkah, even if we didn’t pray in Hebrew. It never occurred to us to regularly attend services, but we did go to temple when we were invited for a bar/bat mitzvah. Mom approved of me reading the Diary of Anne Frank when I was in the fourth grade and I read Holocaust stories and histories for a number of years thereafter. We were spiritually Catholic, but there was an undeniable Jewish influence in our lives.

I looked up Beth Hallel online for directions. Under the name, the website said “Messianic Jewish Synagogue.”  What?

I recalled a conversation I had in middle school, where my classmates and I had poked fun at so-called “Jews for Jesus.”

“Look, Tara believes in Jesus, so she’s a Christian,” Leah had said. “And I don’t, so I’m Jewish. You can’t be both! Duh!”

And now, here I was en route to a place that claimed, yes, yes you can. You can have Shabbat service and some Jesus, too. I drove out to the Atlanta suburbs, along the way passing a signboard proclaiming, “Have you read Atlas Shrugged?” on the lawn of a chiropractor’s office.

The parking lot was full, and people were starting to double-park. Would a Messianic synagogue tow?  Nah, I reasoned. I couldn’t think of a single commandment against it (except maybe, “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s… parking spot?”)

The large auditorium of the building was full and a glance up showed that it must be some afterschool basketball court when not being used for special events – the backboards and hoops were drawn up.

I found a lone seat – one of many fold-up chairs set up in the balconies for this event. The friendly rabbi and many volunteers were trying hard to seat people and to dig up some more chairs. The attractive middle-aged woman seated next to me struck up a conversation. She asked me about my phone and showed me that she had the same one.

“This is my first time here to Beth Hallel,” I told her. “I didn’t even know they had one of these Messianic synagogues in Georgia.”

She smiled. “Well, bless your heart! I’ve been coming here since… let’s see…1997?  I grew up in Michigan in the Lutheran church, and then I started coming here when I moved south. I didn’t speak a lick of Hebrew.  But, you know what, if Hebrew is good enough for the Lord, it’s good enough for me.”

I had never heard it put that way before.

The rabbi and volunteers were successful in seating the majority of the attendants, but clearly had been surprised by the response of the community. Rose took the stage, looking resplendent in a lightly sequined dress and coat. The rabbi came to the stage to move her podium. Without missing a beat, she said, “That’s why we need a rabbi – to schlep!”

The audience laughed. She made jokes throughout her talk, and even though she shared some of the horrendous experiences she faced in the ghetto and later in a concentration camp, her theme was one of hope and forgiveness. She had found both of these in G-d, and only came to accept Jesus as her savior later in life – after she had been the leader of her synagogue. She found in this combination faith a way to forgive her tormentors, and did so on a trip to Berlin.

On my way out, I spoke to an old co-worker who had heard about the event through my facebook page. She had never seen a Holocaust survivor speak before and was excited and inspired by the experience. As I left Beth Hallel, I too was in awe – not only of Rose’s courage and determination, but of the actualization of a peaceful middle ground between two very different faiths.

Genuine Goal-Setting as an Answer to School Violence?

Goal-Setting for Students

Today’s students are lost in overcrowded schools with too few role models. Goal-setting does not seem to be a focus in most schools. Could students who have a goal to work towards get in less trouble than those who don’t? Click the link above to hear my mp3 on the matter.

~Tara Overzat

Someone Will Listen

Someone Will Listen

The media has recently been highlighting the depression that tweens, adolescents, and young adults experience. Truth is, people of all ages can feel overburdened and helpless and it is not a new problem. Click the link above to hear the WMA file.

~Tara Overzat

We Are Not Independent

Click here- We Are Not Independent – WMA audio file

Just a brief thought about how we as individuals aren’t ever alone, even when we are lonely. You can click the link above (it will take you to a second page where you can click the link again) to hear the WMA file.

~Tara Overzat

Not All Dogs Go To Heaven

By Tara Overzat

Sen. Ted Kennedy passed this week after a 15 month battle with a malignant glioma, a type of brain cancer. While the media seems to be focusing on his “political achievements” and all the friends he had on Capitol Hill, Mary Jo Kopechne’s death seems to have been forgotten. Read more »

Hypocrisy – SPCA CEO Leaves Dog in Car

Posted by Tara Overzat

Robin Starr, CEO of the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals of Richmond, VA, left her deaf and blind dog in a sweltering car for four hours. Though she sought care for the animal, he died of kidney failure. I have no problem with preaching so long as you practice what you preach!

Read the article here.

Philosophical Questions

By Tara Overzat

Just a few questions I’ve had on my mind lately…

1) If emotions make up the human experience (love, loss, happiness, grief, anger, adoration, etc.), do people who experience fewer or less intense emotions have a “less human” experience?

2) If you have an incredible moment with someone, but then forget that moment due to drugs, alcohol or disease, is that moment still important to the other person?

3) Can people be judged by the net value of how they touched other people’s lives? If someone has done more harm than good (even unintentionally) was his/her life worthless?

4)  If we all could conquer our fears, how much happier and more productive would the world be? Is facing that fear, and doing the scariest thing you can imagine (just scary, not evil or unconscionable) the only way to combat fear?

5) If everyone chose one person to be 100% honest with at least once a day, would there be a chain reaction of truth that could change someone’s life?

6) Does the truth always come out eventually, or are some things destined to remain a secret?

7) Is it true that some people just meet each other at the wrong time, like ships passing in the night, or are all our meetings predestined, with people guiding us along our paths?

George Bush & His Malapropisms

By Tara Overzat

My boyfriend and I had long talked about whether Pres. George W. Bush had suffered a stroke sometime early on in his presidency. He had been an artful speaker as Governor of Texas, fast on the draw. As president those skills began to wane considerably. I never once believed he was as dumb as the media liked to portray him. If not a stroke, maybe belated effects of his earlier alcoholism had hit him hard and at a bad time.

Much like the people surrounding FDR kept the public from knowing he was in a wheelchair, Bush’s team did an artful job of letting the public believe this was just President Bush’s down-home Texas personality shining through. People in Texas, the Bush camp implied, maybe talk a little plainer and a  little slower. Bush, the explanation went, was an Everyman.

The video below is a side by side comparison of Bush’s gubernatorial debate in Texas in 1994 and a later debate in 2004. The difference in speech is striking.

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Inspirational – Christopher Wall

Posted by Tara Overzat

Thirty-three years ago, a baby boy was born with his heart outside of his body. Doctors initially thought this newborn with ectopia cordis would have just days to live. Today, Christopher Wall is alive and well, and though his heart still beats visibly outside his body, it doesn’t stop him from playing basketball and going out with the guys.

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Wall’s courage and zest for life can remind all of us to live to the fullest despite the difficulties thrown our way.

ZoNation Video – Cash For Clunkers

Posted by Tara Overzat

AlfonZo Rachel is a conservative Republican putting a young, sometimes corny, flavor on the conservative message. His Cash For Clunkers video below is some food for thought. I don’t agree with everything he says, but the hyperbole makes a great point.

I’m looking forward to the fallout, I mean feedback, from this post. :-)

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